GREG: Speaking of the Ripl community that's giving you advice, Building Better CMOs always likes to ask, what's the best advice you've been given? It could be personal, it could be professional, you can go in any direction you want, but I often find when I talk to other board members like you, Lauren, that there's a couple of pivotal moments in their lives where somebody's said something that made a big difference to them.
LAUREN: Yeah. For me, there were two. There was a woman on our board a number of years ago who—
GREG: On the Brunswick board, you mean, right?
LAUREN: On our Brunswick board, yeah, who said to me... And actually she said this to kind of a leadership group of our top female executives. Someone asked a question about, you've done a lot of moves, you've run a lot of businesses, how did you get yourself going?
And she said, "There's very few things in life that you can't get yourself out of." And sometimes you hear things and they just land so squarely. And for me, it was just such incredible permission to take risks and just go for it. It's like, how badly can I really make a decision and not be able to unwind it? I mean, really when you pressure test it, it just is kind of go for it, just jump in. And honestly, somewhat related, I adopted that really thoroughly in my career. And I would say, though my career path does look like a straight line, I really just chased my interests in whatever is the next opportunity. It's not like I said, oh, I'm going to be a CMO. And I remember telling my dad that one time, "I'm not even sure what path I'm really on, I'm just going with it. I'm following the momentum."
And we were talking through kind of how to be more purposeful. And I was saying, my network is not that purposeful. It's just kind of created organically. And he said, "One, keep going," but two, he said, "It's so interesting because you're sitting here thinking, 'Where are you going with this?'" And he said, "Growing up as a boy, obviously, I was always kind of nurtured to just go for the next thing. And I was trained at a very early age to be told no and keep going for it." This is my father's advice to me, he said, "Men are just primed to keep asking the girl out until they say, yes, prom, whatever it is. Keep going after that sale, go for the next job." It's almost like inherent in the way he was, at the time, brought up. "Don't worry about the no, just keep going for it." Where he was saying differently, women at the time are really more primed to be the prettiest, be the smartest, be really proper. Stay in your box.
GREG: A hundred percent, Lauren.
LAUREN: And he was like, "Don't stay in the box. When you engage with people in your professional network, ask them for help." And the other thing he said to me is men will say, 'Hey, let's go get a drink. Let's go play golf or whatever.' He's like, "Men always do it. They follow through. Women half the time are like, 'I don't think he really meant, let's go get a drink,' or 'We're not going to really go get golf.' And they don't follow through." Now when he told me that, I was like, well, listen, I can follow through. And actually very soon after, I reconnected with my guidance counselor at Kellogg through the MBA program, and I said, "Hey, I haven't been that purposeful about my network. I need to rebuild this. Can you introduce me to one person that would be relevant?" And she said, "Oh, yeah, I went to school with the CMO at GM, Deb Wahl."
GREG: Deb Wahl.
LAUREN: "And let me introduce you to her." And I was like, well, wait. This is my first step. Do I really want to start at the top here?
GREG: And Deb's a looming presence, I think, in the world. Yes, I agree. Yes.
LAUREN: But I did, I talked, and it was very relevant. Part of what GM was working through was some channel transformation. They were doing a lot with the Cadillac brand. There was a lot of similarities to what we were doing. So I did my homework. I didn't just call her and say, "Hey, can you help me?" I did my homework. And one of the things I saw was she was engaged with the MMA.
GREG: She was my board chair at the time.
LAUREN: Yeah. So when I closed my call with her, I said, "Hey, I saw you're engaged with MMA, I'd love to learn more if you could just introduce me to anyone who could help me get engaged." And she said, "Oh, I'm going to introduce you to Greg. I'll connect him. I know they're looking for more members." And I know now you're probably beating people away with a stick. MMA has become such an explosion, but at the time, I think you called me the next day.
GREG: Oh, is that right? That's funny. Yeah.
LAUREN: It was within a couple days, and I felt like, wow, what immediate feedback loop in terms of something so effective in terms of building your network.
GREG: Yeah. Listen, I'm a big believer. And I remember what Deb said to me because I'm a big believer... and I'll even give you sort of another perspective, given I'm a little bit older on things at this stage, but anybody who sees either opportunity or responsibility, however you want to look at that to get involved at the industry level, I'm obviously a strong encourager of that, having now run two nonprofit trade associations.
But I also think, Lauren, it's funny, and I'll say this too with a little bit of a gender tinge to it, so apologies to any of the listeners if they don't like that. But I've watched a lot of men grow up in particular in their career. And if they don't have a strong network, and it would go for anybody, but I've seen it there a lot. If you don't have a network, there's a point in time, I would say somewhere around 50 and beyond, you don't get hired unless they know you or can triangulate to you in a personal way. My point is that network and having that network valuable at any stage of your career, essential when you get into the latter part of your career, and I'm suprised that people don't do that.
LAUREN: I'm sure, I agree. I obviously don't know what it's like to be a man without a network, but generally, one, I think especially in our field, it will become incredibly lonely. And you just need people who speak your language. You need your peer set. But then in terms of opportunities, marketers know how to market themselves. And for other organizations, it can be hard to cut through the noise. One of the ways you can cut through the noise is by tapping your network. And if you aren't part of a network, you're in trouble.
GREG: Yep. I love that.